Every year, right after Thanksgiving night,many families bring a Christmas tree into their home. It’s chosen carefully, welcomed with excitement, and placed in the very best spot—right where everyone can see it. The lights are tested, the ornaments unpacked, and the tree becomes the center of attention. Photos are taken. Memories are made. For weeks, it stands proudly, holding the joy of the season on its branches.

The tree serves its purpose beautifully. It gathers the family together. It creates warmth. It gives more than it takes.

Then December 25th passes…

Slowly, the lights come down. The ornaments are wrapped away. The tree that once held such value is now quietly carried out, no longer needed in the same way. Its role is finished.

Life can feel like this sometimes.

There will be moments when people treat you like a Christmas tree. They welcome you, place you in an important spot, and rely on you for comfort, support, love, or strength. And then—when the season changes—they move on. It can sting if you’re not prepared. But it doesn’t mean your worth disappeared. It means your purpose was fulfilled.

Don’t be surprised. Don’t feel remorse. Be grateful that you were able to be what someone needed, exactly when they needed it. Some connections are meant to be permanent; others are meant to be meaningful for a moment.
Like the Christmas tree, your value was real—even if it wasn’t forever.

“There is a quiet fulfillment in knowing you showed up fully for someone, even if your presence was only meant to last for a season.”